Posted by: namesconnie | November 19, 2011

So What?

So What?

So what if that certain person doesn’t like you or love you,

It doesn’t mean you are not likeable or lovable.

So what if that certain person gave you a dirty look,

There is nothing dirty about you.

So what if that certain person thinks you are worthless,

Know you are valuable and so worthy to be here.

So what if that certain person tries to be cruel to you –

You don’t have to allow the cruelty

Nor accept it;

You can instead treat yourself with dignity and honor and respect,

Knowing that you are a most important creation

Worthy of all that is good and decent in life.

So what if that certain person put you down,

You didn’t deserve that, it wasn’t true what they said

and you only deserve kindness;

Their remarks can be cast to the wind and blow so far away

they will never come to your mind


And if perchance you start to allow a certain person to diminish your self-esteem,

Remember to just say “So what?” they have no authority over you and they don’t ever get the last say in

Your beautiful life.

– Connie Webb



  1. I truly loved this one Connie. It is so inspiring and uplifting and gives us all something to really think about. 🙂 Wonderful writing as always. Hugs, Gabby

    • Thanks Gabby for your comment. I do appreciate it. Sincerely, Connie Webb

  2. I love this admonition! beautifully done 🙂 Thank you for the Thanksgiving wishes dear Connie. I truly appreciate it although we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving here in Jamaica. Hope you had a wonderful time with your family. God bless you 🙂

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