Posted by: namesconnie | November 25, 2013

Letting Go of Abusers

One day you wake up and say: I do not believe I deserve abuse any longer. And when that happens everything changes for you. You no longer bend yourself like a pretzel to do something for someone who treats you unkindly. You no longer subject yourself to people that you know do not have your best interests at heart. You no longer allow anyone in your life who makes you feel less than. Who makes you feel unworthy. Who makes you feel like a nothing.

Why? Because you finally figured out that you are valuable. You are equal. You are worthy. You are a somebody. A somebody who deserves love, respect and kindness. A somebody who no longer deserves cruel or harsh treatment from anyone – ever. And you finally realize you get to have the most lovely life – ever. Because you never will allow any cruel persons in your life again.

And you breathe a sigh of relief knowing, you finally are doing the most important thing ever – taking care of yourself the way you always should have. Being kind and loving to yourself by not allowing abuse has finally opened up so many doors that were closed. You can now enjoy the fresh ocean air and feel the sun on your face. You can now enjoy laughter. You see and hear things that are encouraging from the kind people you now hang out with and the joyful things you are now involved with. Today your life is no longer filled with pain because you finally realized it is time for peace.

Letting go of abusive persons can be the most important thing you do for yourself. Life is not meant to suffer. Life is meant to be enjoyed each passing day. You can do this without being bogged down by abusers.

And the best thing of all that happens is that you now can love more, laugh more, be the real “you” more. And that is what the world needed all along – you. The you that you were born to be. Happy, smiling, enjoying life. If you are being abused, do what you can to get out of it. Remember, you are worth it and the world needs you – the real you!

– By, Connie Webb




  1. Letting go of abusers. .. really Connie, this is very inspiring. We let others threat us poorly. We wanna please others while displeasing ourselves.
    Takes a while to learn when to let go. How to love the YOU..
    Once you are there, you are born again. The brand new kind of you.
    Thanks for the lovely post.

  2. Great piece.

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